Mismatched Sexual Desire
Are you and your partner struggling to connect on sexual desire?
Do your high and low sex drives seem out of sync?
Has your sexual relationship become routine, lacking excitement and passion?
Do you feel that your partner is no longer attracted to or interested in sex?
Your concerns are valid, and there is always room for improvement. With the right guidance, your relationship cannot only survive but thrive. With my extensive experience and AASECT Certification in Sex Therapy, I am uniquely qualified to address sexual intimacy concerns for individuals and couples. This includes discrepancies in sexual desire, frequency, quality, romance, and passion. Mismatched sexual desire is a common issue in many long-term relationships. This discrepancy can arise from various factors, often requiring a nuanced approach. Couples therapy can help build a solid foundation in your relationship, addressing issues such as communication, boundaries, parenting, and rebuilding trust after past betrayals.
Understanding the Factors Contributing to Mismatched Sexual Desire:
Medical Conditions:
- Cancer
- Diabetes
- Arthritis
- Chronic pain and fatigue
- High blood pressure
- Coronary heart disease
- Neurological issues
- Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)
- Significant life events
- Pregnancy and parenthood transition
- Perimenopause and Menopause
- Grief and Loss
- Sexual trauma (abuse, rape, incest)
- Work and life imbalance
- Psychological or physical disability
Relationship Factors:
- Relationship conflict
- Toxic communication
- Criticism or contempt
- Defensiveness
- Stonewalling
- Lack of emotional connection
- Affairs and infidelity
- Low sexual satisfaction
- Broken trust
Medical and Psychological Factors:
- Mental health issues (e.g., anxiety, depression, low self-esteem)
- Psychiatric medications (e.g., antidepressants)
- Alcohol and substance use
- Hormonal changes
- Painful intercourse
- Erectile dysfunction
- Delayed ejaculation
How Can Couples Therapy Empower You?
Through treatment, it’s important to know that you’re not alone. You can work towards achieving balance, harmony, and satisfaction in your partnership, offering hope for a fulfilling relationship. If you are ready to take the first step towards a healthier sexual relationship, contact me today.
